Frank Goebel
April 16th, 2009, 08:16 PM
Long post to follow.
I was bowling tonight; this league isn't the one where I'm secretary. Someone called asking for the secretary of my main league (not me by name) and I was given the phone, and I took the call between frames. It turned out to be what may have been a secretary or representative of another league in which one of my members (and his girlfriend) bowled.
This rep asked if my league was done; we were, and had already distributed prizes and are all done until August. She was disappointed; she told me that she got an e-mail recently (perhaps just today) that this member (and his girlfriend) had been suspended by the league - when I asked for clarification, it was USBC suspensions for failure to pay dues. I got a dollar figure which I won't share here.
I suppose she would have liked my league to hold prize funds to go back to her league. Naturally I'd have to have all of that documented, but I still believe strongly in dues payment and my own league processed a suspension for a walked-off member a few years ago (on my own team).
Since my association's office won't be staffed until after the weekend, I won't be able to confirm the suspension until Monday. It won't retroactively affect the season's outcome; the suspension wasn't in effect during the season proper as far as I know. But I will see that team's captain in a third league this weekend, and one teammate in that league is this same bowler's son (who himself is in my league; and the son had stiffed this same other league in the past, according to this rep).
I also believe in privacy and confidentiality, but I just wonder what my responsibility would be once a suspension takes effect. That is, if a bowler is suspended on the first of a month, and then continues to bowl three days later in a different house: That would create an unknown forfeit situation (I already know how to process that).
I'm conflicted on how to process this, since I'm still bowling a couple more weeks in my third league on a team with the son on my own team and the captain within my own league on another team there - who do I approach, if anyone? do I ask if the son is up on his dues? (I am not the captain) Do I mention it to my main league's captain (the son also bowled on that team)? Do I remain silent about everything?
Part of me would like to at least be aware, even if in confidence (restrained to not discuss), of a pending suspension of one of my bowlers, so that I would automatically be informed of such a decision and would be able to act, thereby possibly avoiding an unknown forfeit. The aforementioned confidentiality, I would respect, would forego that.
The only person I've talked to at all so far is the secretary of tonight's league; he too is in my main league and it was more for me to vent rather than anything else. He's a confidante in many respects.
Any thoughts?
I was bowling tonight; this league isn't the one where I'm secretary. Someone called asking for the secretary of my main league (not me by name) and I was given the phone, and I took the call between frames. It turned out to be what may have been a secretary or representative of another league in which one of my members (and his girlfriend) bowled.
This rep asked if my league was done; we were, and had already distributed prizes and are all done until August. She was disappointed; she told me that she got an e-mail recently (perhaps just today) that this member (and his girlfriend) had been suspended by the league - when I asked for clarification, it was USBC suspensions for failure to pay dues. I got a dollar figure which I won't share here.
I suppose she would have liked my league to hold prize funds to go back to her league. Naturally I'd have to have all of that documented, but I still believe strongly in dues payment and my own league processed a suspension for a walked-off member a few years ago (on my own team).
Since my association's office won't be staffed until after the weekend, I won't be able to confirm the suspension until Monday. It won't retroactively affect the season's outcome; the suspension wasn't in effect during the season proper as far as I know. But I will see that team's captain in a third league this weekend, and one teammate in that league is this same bowler's son (who himself is in my league; and the son had stiffed this same other league in the past, according to this rep).
I also believe in privacy and confidentiality, but I just wonder what my responsibility would be once a suspension takes effect. That is, if a bowler is suspended on the first of a month, and then continues to bowl three days later in a different house: That would create an unknown forfeit situation (I already know how to process that).
I'm conflicted on how to process this, since I'm still bowling a couple more weeks in my third league on a team with the son on my own team and the captain within my own league on another team there - who do I approach, if anyone? do I ask if the son is up on his dues? (I am not the captain) Do I mention it to my main league's captain (the son also bowled on that team)? Do I remain silent about everything?
Part of me would like to at least be aware, even if in confidence (restrained to not discuss), of a pending suspension of one of my bowlers, so that I would automatically be informed of such a decision and would be able to act, thereby possibly avoiding an unknown forfeit. The aforementioned confidentiality, I would respect, would forego that.
The only person I've talked to at all so far is the secretary of tonight's league; he too is in my main league and it was more for me to vent rather than anything else. He's a confidante in many respects.
Any thoughts?